ABC Letters

Settling In

Starting nursery is a big step. We take great care to ensure your child's transition to ABC Letters is gentle, positive, and at their own pace.

Our Approach to Settling In

Child-Led Pace

Every child is different. We follow your child's lead and adapt the timeline to their needs.

Gradual Transition

We believe in gentle introductions and avoid rushing a process that deserves care and confidence.

Key Person System

Your child will have a key person who builds a secure relationship and supports them from day one.

Open Communication

We keep you informed throughout settling in with regular conversations, handovers, and support.

What to Expect

A typical settling-in period lasts around two to three weeks, but we always adapt to your child and family.

1

Before Starting

  • Home visit or video call with your child's key person
  • Share information about your child's routines and preferences
  • Receive our parent handbook with practical information
  • Arrange your settling-in schedule
2

Week 1

  • Short visits with a parent present
  • Explore the environment together
  • Meet other children and staff
  • Build familiarity with routines
3

Week 2

  • Gradually extend visit times
  • Practise brief separations
  • Stay for snack or lunch
  • Key person builds relationship with your child
4

Week 3+

  • Longer sessions with confident goodbyes
  • Full sessions when ready
  • Ongoing communication and support
  • A flexible approach based on your child's needs

Tips for a Smooth Transition

Before Starting

  • Talk positively about nursery at home
  • Read books about starting nursery
  • Practise separations with trusted adults
  • Establish a predictable goodbye routine

During Settling In

  • Keep goodbyes brief and confident
  • Trust the process and the team
  • Maintain consistent routines at home
  • Communicate any concerns openly

What to Bring

  • A comforter or special toy if needed
  • Family photos for your child's tray
  • Spare clothes labelled clearly
  • Any specific dietary information

Remember

  • Some tears are normal
  • Every child settles at their own pace
  • We'll call you if we're concerned
  • It does get easier

Ready to Begin?

Register your interest to start your family's journey with ABC Letters.